Feeling sad . . .
A recent chain of events has led me to deal with some things that many people including Christians participate in but do not think are wrong. One scripture that I found that addresses this very thing is “A perverse man stirs up dissension, and a gossip separates close friends." (Proverbs 16:28) I have dealt with this topic so much in public education with kids and for girls it may be worse and the same with adult women (some). I love to inspire young girls so I try to encourage them not to do this “he said she said thing” but the other thing that I found is disappointing is when people talk about someone in a negative way either because they don’t like the way it is done or “it felt like they didn’t like me” or “I know they were talking about me.” Several years ago someone in the church thought I was unfriendly. I was so focused on getting some things done prior to the service I guess I didn’t talk to someone. Not sure what that was about. When I get focused I tend to do just that. Anyway it was all good and I didn’t get bent out of shape. How is gossip explained? First I decided to look up a description of gossip/slander that is negative talk about someone with the intent of damaging someone’s reputation or character. It is something I do not tolerate and with teenagers I explain and usually have to go over multiple times. After all, they are still young and that’s what many teenagers do so it is a learning curve. However, an adult who does this is even worse. I have been involved in church my whole life from the time I could go. Of course, there have been many who have participated in this type of slander or gossip. In a church it’s about the pews or the color of paint or the music or the table cloths or the locks or the finances among so many things and sometimes someone they don't like. That being said, why? If anything we do causes another to stumble then one day we will answer. Exodus 20:16 “You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.” This subject I’m sure has divided more churches than can be counted and it is sad that anyone who is a Christian can do this. Bring it to God in prayer, He is not going to tell you to divide a church! Pray about it and He will take care of it. I Timothy 5:13 “And besides they learn idle, wandering about from house to house, and not only idle but also gossips and busybodies, saying things which they ought not.” This post was not intended to be negative but to encourage people to turn against gossip and slander but be in prayer and meditation. If you take it into your own hands in these situations, you don't believe God can take care of it. It always works out if we let go and let God.
Defeated . . .
Feeling defeated in almost every area of Your life as a Christian is hard. David was about 17 when his brothers, who were very jealous, were thrown into a cistern (pit) where they thought he would die. One of the brothers planned to rescue him later but the others sold him into slavery before he could be rescued. Wow! Can you imagine what his life would look like? Well David had all His hope in Jesus and he continued to have Faith. You can read about his life in Genesis 37. This boy fought a giant in his mid teens and won. We fight giants every day by using the Word of God as our Sword. David went from being a shepherd left to die in a pit by his brothers to becoming King of Israel. Now if we think God cannot do miracles then we are mistaken. God is at work in our lives. “The LORD is my rock and my fortress and my deliverer; My God, my strength, in whom I will trust; My shield and the horn of my salvation, my stronghold.” (Psalms 18:2)
Judge Not . . .
This week many different scriptures and thoughts have been a part of my study. Everything from Nehemiah who was a man with a humble heart and one who prayed, led and served to when we are hurt or offended that we should not make accusations to saying yes to God’s calling. I am in awe of God’s amazing grace and we should be willing to serve how he wants us to, not how we want to. I was listening to an old Billy Graham sermon on being called by God he said, “delayed obedience is disobedience.” One thing I never wanted to say was that I was called and not because I didn’t want to be called but I didn’t feel worthy I guess. In more recent years I have said “God, what is your calling on my life? I want to do your will.” Something else I think we need to think about is as a Christian we are not to judge others' hearts. God is the only one who knows a man's heart. I have made it a practice in my own life to pray and leave it to God because it is my heart that I should be concerned with. We are all human. There are times when we get in a hurry and we may not be all sweet and lovely for one reason or another but to judge the heart of that man is something I would not want to answer on judgement day. I have two books “The Power of a Praying Wife” and “The Power of a Praying Parent” by Stormie Ortman that I have used through the years. If you were to see my copies they are a bit used and written in, however, in the “Power of the Praying Wife", the first chapter is “His Wife.” As a wife I needed to search for myself, pray for reflection in my life and have a clean heart before I can pray for my husband. I think as Christians it is important to do that as well, to ask God to clear our own hearts and ask for forgiveness and then pray for others whether it is a child, a spouse, a pastor or even a friend. We want God to hear our prayers and we must first remove the plank out of our own eye. I was listening to Cissie Graham Lynch's podcast and she was talking about a conversation she had with, I believe, her grandfather Billy Graham. He told her we should not judge or make negative comments or accusations of the ministry of another person and that had always stuck with her. It’s easy to do but if that person was to lead someone to Christ that will impact many others for Christ and we stunt (or try to because God has the last say) we will be the one answering to God. Focus on outreach and the lost, being prayer warriors and helping those in need without judging other's hearts. This was a bit of a mesh of thoughts and I will dive deeper in the scripture in future posts.
It’s not really about me!
Over the past few days, several things have stood out to me in scripture and in experiences. There has probably been a previous post at some point but I decided to focus once again on this. Why do we do what we do? It is important that what we do is not selfish or focused on self but on others. As a Christian our motives are to reach others or to do things in ministry for self. I also adapted this in my professional life as a teacher. When asked what advice in all those years, my response was “it’s not about me, that’s how 40 years happened.” This is something I’m kind of passionate about which is why I share it. If we did things solely for ourselves, I’m pretty sure most of us would have a different life. As a Christian, it is important to focus on others in life and conversation. Talking to someone one day, they used the word "I" 30 times in a short conversation and not to judge them but it was I, I, I and it didn’t feel sincere but almost like it was about them and not the person they were helping. Being humble in our conversation and our mission as Christians attracts others and our ministry can blossom. There are many scriptures in the Bible that talk about the importance of focusing on others. “Do nothing out of selfish ambition or conceit but in humility consider others as more important than yourselves.” Philippians 2:3 (CSB) Overuse of the word “I” can make one appear selfish, boastful and egocentric. Nothing is more difficult than listening to someone talk that continuously uses “I.” During a recent meeting, the person talking continuously used the word “I.” What she wanted and not for the better good for the group. Lifting someone up in prayer and asking God to intercede is the best way to handle it unless there is an opportunity that you can interject that is not demeaning or degrading to the person. Another matter that tends to occur with the use of “I” over and over again, others do not have a chance to give their input. Listening is a skill that few have or have mastered where monopolizing a conversation and even turning it into a one-sided conversation about self overpowers the entire situation. Step back and think about a couple of things. Are you a good listener which allows you to respond appropriately or are you a monopolizer and others cannot talk. There is a time to speak and a time to listen. Peter in the Bible was always eager to speak and was boastful and arrogant. He boasted that he would not leave Jesus yet denied him three times. Do we want to be more like Peter or Jesus who listened to others?
What can we learn?
For a while I have been reading through the Book of Nehemiah. I decided that I needed to dive deeper so I added a few resources to my study and have gained so much insight into his life. He was a humble man, gave God credit for everything and did not seek glory for himself, focused on God. I began to think about Nehemiah and his life and what we can gain through his experiences. First of all, what an amazing man of God that both men and women can learn from. The Book of Nehemiah starts out with a sincere prayer to God which was triggered by learning from his brother Hannani who travelled from Judah that Jerusalems’ walls had been broken down and the gates burned. This brought great sadness to Nehemiah and after fasting and crying with sadness this prayer he prayed: “5 I pray Lord God of heaven, O great and awesome God, You who keep Your covenant and mercy with those who love You and observe Your commandments, 6 please let Your ear be attentive and Your eyes open, that You may hear the pray of Your servant which I pray before You now, day and night, for the children of Israel Your servants, and confess the sins of the children of Israel which we have sinned against You. Both my father’s house and I have sinned. 7 We have acted very corruptly against You, and have not kept the commandments, the statutes, nor the ordinances which You commanded Your servant Moses. 8 Remember I pray, the word that You commanded Your servant Moses, saying, ‘If you are unfaithful, I will scatter you among the nations; 9 but if you return to Me and keep My commandments and do them, though some of you were cast out to the farthest part of the heavens, yet I will gather them from there and bring them to the place which I have chosen as a dwelling for my name.’ 10 Now these are Your servants and Your people, whom You have redeemed by Your great power, and by Your strong hand. 11 O Lord, I pray, please let Your ear be attentive to the prayer of Your servant and to the prayer of Your servants who desire to fear Your name; and let your servant prosper this day, I pray, and grant him mercy in the sign of this man.” We can take a lot from this prayer he prayed. Nehemiah had a passion for God and His work from his role as a cup-bearer to the king to the builder of the wall and then the governor of the people. His leadership and faith is a true testimony and as we learn a little more about Nehemiah we learn he had to learn the waiting game, which as we all know, is difficult. We want answers now and not next week or next month or next year. God hears our earnest prayers when we have a personal relationship with him and sometimes he makes us wait.
They that wait . . .
One of my favorite chorus songs and scripture verses is “But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.” -Isaiah 4:31 Sometimes it feels like we wait forever. I remember as a young person, probably between 16 and 24, I thought I would never get married and have a family. It seemed I had to wait a long time. It came at a time, I wasn’t really looking and out of the blue, a friend told me that a young man would like to take me out. I guess it is one of those fairy tales, “he was watching me from afar.” Anyway, we went out and a year and half later we were married. There are many situations where we get inpatient with the process or the waiting and we just want it now. I know when I would get to work in the morning and turn my computer on, it seemed like forever it took to come on and then get logged in. It probably took a minute to come on and maybe a minute to log in, if that. Of course I wanted it immediately. At a restaurant, we want our food now and don’t want to wait. “The Lord is good to those who wait for Him, to the soul who seeks Him. It is good that a man should wait quietly for the salvation of the Lord.” -Lamentations 3:25-26 Think about how impatient Abraham and his wife were even though they knew God had said his descendents would be many. Wait patiently and God will reward us much.
Forever and ever . . .
The Bible is full of guidance and wisdom for live our lives. If we think about it, most things fade with time but the Word of God lives on. In Isaiah 40:8 we read that "The grass withers, the flower fades, but the word of our God will stand forever."(NIV) According to AI, which I am not actually a fan of, “In 2024, an estimated 80 million copies of the Bible were printed annually, and sales are surging. The Bible remains the most sold and distributed book of all time, with an estimated 5 billion copies sold worldwide. Bible sales in the US alone saw a 22% increase in 2024.” This has held true through the ages. The Bible has stood the test of time. People today experience similar situations in the Bible that were experienced hundreds of years ago. James 1:22-25 “But be doers of the Word and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves. For if anyone is a hearer of the Word and not a doer, he is like a man observing his natural face in the mirror; for he observes himself, goes away, and immediately forgets what kind of man he was. But he who looks into the perfect law of liberty and continues in it, and is not a forgetful hearer but a doer of the work, this one will be blessed in what he does.” (NKJV). We need to read the scriptures and apply it in all areas of our lives, not just the parts that fit what we want. The Word of God is the truth and we can see down through the ages when people and even ourselves have only applied the parts they like, life gets messy.
Search My Heart O God . . .
As I was listening to a David Jeremiah sermon the other day I was motivated and inspired to look into the topic a little deeper and it should give anyone pause for understanding. Our Heavenly Father gives us opportunities to accept Him and to serve Him and it is up to us to accept or deny Him. But if we deny him enough our hearts will become hardened. Some are given a second chance to accept Him when they go through a life-threatening illness and others don’t get a second or third or fourth chance and are taken too soon and none of us know if they had a last minute thought to accept Jesus. When we were driving home from an appointment after two years of chemo and the doctor said, it was in God’s hands now - unless we wanted to stretch it just a tiny bit longer but at the time he was so weak and of course we talked. He said, I am glad I had this time and it wasn’t quick. Although he was a Christian his faith became stronger and he was closer to Jesus. Just a blessing to me, but as I said earlier we don’t always have that. As David Jeremiah was preaching, the second coming of Jesus (the rapture) will take up all those we have accepted Him and are living their lives for Jesus. As it says in scripture, “Behold, I come as a thief. Blessed is he that watcheth, and keepeth his garments, lest he walk naked, and they see his shame.” (Revelations 16:15) We need to always be watching and waiting Him for if we are not taken up in the second coming we will experience a true tribulation and the Holy Spirit will not be with us, he will return to Heaven with Jesus and all those who have accepted Him. And many who have gone to church for many years or those who are just good people may be left behind. God knows our hearts and we are not fooling Him. “Would not God discover this? For he knows the secrets of the heart.” (Psalms 44:21) We need to search our hearts and ask ourselves what are my motives. If they are to be showy and to know it all then our hearts are not actually with good intentions, they are for selfish intentions. So “Search me, O God, and know my heart today, Try me, O Savior, know my thoughts, I pray; See if there be some wicked way in me; Cleanse me from every sin, and set me free.” (J. Edwin Orr, 1936)
Sometimes it takes a lot . . .
Of patience as a teacher and parent. As I was reading the Proverbs today, it rings so true for me as a teacher. After 40 years I have built up a lot of patience but on occasion that anger comes through and I try to use it in an encouraging way if that makes sense. When I was reading Proverbs 15 today, verse 1 starts out “A gentle answer turns away anger, but a harsh word stirs up wrath”, I have had situations I have encountered with students and one in particular who enjoys testing my patience, it flashed through my mind. It has actually happened a few times in the last few months with the same student. And although I could feel the anger brewing due to disrespect that I have not normally encountered, I explained to him why his behavior was wrong. Trying to incorporate this scripture into our lives takes a conscientious effort until it becomes natural. Reading and listening to scripture gives such wisdom. Take time to incorporate those into your daily devotions. I have chosen to read through the books of Psalms and Proverbs in a podcast so others who have busy lives can listen in the car, while cooking dinner, or when they just need to hear God’s word. Do not it replace it with reading God’s word, we need to do that, but when I’m driving or when I am working on something in my house it certainly is a blessing.
Jesus holds on to us . . .
As children each summer we would go on a mountain vacation. We have so many memories we can talk about during those trips. One of the things the kids all remember is where we would stay. For many years the kids grew up going to a hotel with three pools and during the summer trips down there one of our children was small and daddy had to hold them in the pool. They knew that daddy wouldn’t let go. I have pictures of each of them during that time in their lives being held by daddy. If we know as a child our earthly daddy won’t let go, we should know how much more our Heavenly Father will not let go, we just need to have faith in his promises. “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” Proverbs 3:5-6 (ESV). “I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing.” John 15:5 (ESV) If we come to Him and accept Him as our Savior, He will not let go. He will not forsake us. God tells us repeatedly in scripture that if we acknowledge Him, He will make our paths straight. Think of when Peter saw Jesus on the water and Peter asked to come to Him. Peter lost sight of Jesus for a moment until Peter was reminded that he must have faith. Jesus reaches out and saves him. If we can have the faith of a mustard seed, He will never leave us or forsake us. As we study scripture, we learn that God’s people repeatedly lost faith in our Heavenly Father and there ways were made straight.
“Then you will know the truth and the truth will set you free.” John 8:31 (NIV)
God said it, I believe it, and that settles it. Richard J. Foster said it best in his book Celebration of Discipline: The Path of Spiritual Growth. Fully giving our life to Jesus and not just going through the motions, church every Sunday, Sunday School, giving an offering, or going to potlucks does not cut it. We must acknowledge God and we must use His guidebook, The Holy Bible, and genuinely have a relationship with Him. In our daily walk with our Heavenly Father we need to fully give our lives to Him and prayer is crucial to this relationship. Think about children. When they have a need they come to their parents and ask. When we have a need, shouldn’t we come to our Father for our needs. In scripture God tells us to come to Him as a child. What does this mean? As born again Christians we are children of God and as a child of God we should come to Him. He cares for us and in Marshall’s book she says, to ask yourself “Do I really expect anything to happen?” She states, “This will prevent us from going window-shopping in prayer.” What an understandable explanation of how we should come to Him. Why would we ask if we don’t expect? Our local pastor says at the start of most services “Do you come expecting?”
Reading is Inspirational
The Bible is our guide to the best life we can have and the best hope of eternal future in Heaven instead of eternal damnation in hell. When we accept Jesus Christ as our personal Savior and ask for forgiveness for our sins and strive to live a Christ-like life with His guidance we can have that assurance. Reading other real life stories and faith-based, Bible based books can give us additional support in our walk. Today I finished a book I found after watching a Christian leader who referenced this book “Adventures in Prayer” by Catherine Marshall. A very inspiring and uplifting book that reaches into the depths of our soul and guides us in our prayer journey. What a beautiful way to begin our prayer journey and make it an intricate, necessary part of our Christian walk. Another book I have read and just finished recently, actually for the second time and I could read it again is, “Tomorrow is a Matter of CHOICE” by William L. Thrasher, Jr. In this book we learn an 8-step action plan for today as we all strive to hear the words from our Heavenly Father, “Well done, good and faithful servant.” As we explore these books over the next few posts, consider finding these books in the library or you can see book recommendations on the last slide with ordering links. I look forward to sharing inspiration and scripture with you including some I have found in both of these books.
If my people . . .
“If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.” II Chronicles 7:14 (KJV) As we begin this scripture it reads “If my people . . .” My understanding of this: if Christians who are called by my name, shall humble themselves and pray he will forgive our sins. As we study this verse and look at other translations, they have the same meaning. We are not here to judge the words or actions of others, that is only something that God can do. We can judge but as we know the Bible addresses this in several scriptures; here is a scripture that hits home. “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you. Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” Matthew 7:1-5 (NIV) This is very blunt. This is not talking to the carnal man, it is talking to those who have given their lives to Jesus. We do not know the hearts of man and cannot be a judge of others to say whether they are or are not a Christian, to judge why they do or do not do something we think they should or should do or say. We as Christians need to confess when we judge in our hearts, in conversation, or in public or we will be judged and harshly. Daily I ask God for forgiveness because I often judge things in my heart. Starting our prayers with a clean heart gives us a clear access to our Heavenly Father.
He is risen!
He is risen indeed! The joy that brought me when I heard my four year old son so naturally without any prompting. What a blessing children are. Jesus said, “And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart: And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.” Deuteronomy 6:6-7 (KJV) One day when we stand before our Heavenly Father we will be judged. As a parent we are given the greatest responsibility to “Train up a child in the way he should go . . .” Proverbs 22:6 (KJV) The most important thing we can teach our children is about Jesus.
Pray in private
“But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly. But when ye pray, use not vain repetitions, as the heathen do: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking.” Matthew 6:6-7 (KJV) “But when you pray, go into your private room, shut your door, and pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you. And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words.” (CSB) “But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words.” (NIV) We can read multiple translations of this scripture and it has the same meaning. Having a place that is free from interruptions, quiet, and reserved for a place to grow closer to God. This gives us a space or time to retreat and just pray and lift up those things that are in your heart but start with worshiping God. When praying in public it should not be for show. “Do not keep on babbling like pagans for they think they will be heard because of their many words.” When praying in public we need to be sure it is sincere without rambling on.
God’s Plan
In the beginning our Heavenly Father had a plan. The plan was that we work for six days and rest on the seventh indicating that the Sabbath is the day of rest. In Jewish tradition the sabbath is actually a Saturday. There was no specific time in which Christianity began identifying Sunday as the Sabbath, however a Roman Emperor sent out a decree in around 321 A.D. According to history Christianity was said to begin celebrating the Sabbath on Sunday the first day of the week which is when Jesus arose from the grave. As we keep in mind that in the beginning God worked for six days and rested on the seventh, we should keep in mind the importance of work and rest even if that is Monday-Saturday and worship and rest on Sunday. In Exodus 20:8-11 “Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, but the seventh day is a sabbath to the Lord your God. On it you shall not do any work, neither you, nor your son or daughter, nor your male or female servant, nor your animals, nor any foreigner residing in your towns. For in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in them, but he rested on the seventh day. Therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and made it holy.” This was not just initiated in Genesis it was part of the ten commandments. What is your day of rest? God did not intend for us to work ourselves to exhaustion but to look at what we have done and see that it is good.
Dreamers . . .
In scripture God tells us we need to have a vision, a dream, a plan and ask for His guidance to pursue the vision in line with His will not our own. Habakkuk 2:2-3, “Then the Lord replied: “Write down the revelation and make it plain on tablets so that a herald may run with it. For the revelation awaits an appointed time; it speaks of the end and will not prove false. Though it will linger, wait for it; it will certainly come and will not delay.” This scripture encourages us to show patience and if we are following God’s vision, it may tarry but will come to fruition. Our society continues to be more and more impatient in all areas of our life. The computer is not loading quick enough or why is God not answering my question. It will happen in his time but that does not mean we do not plan and follow God’s vision for our life. Take time each day to present your requests to Him, and when the time is right You will know. God uses patience and waiting to give us the very best. Catherine Marshall discusses this in her book “Adventures in Prayer.” Isaiah 40:31 “But they that wait upon the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.” (KJV) My favorite version of this scripture is in the King James Version. There is also a chorus with these words that are so powerful. Keep asking, God wants us to bring our requests to Him.
Memories inspire our future
Many are aware of Corrie Ten Boom who was an author and speaker who survived the holocaust. What an extraordinary life she lived. She can inspire many with her stories and encouraging quotes. One such quote she had was “memories are the key not to the past, but to the future.” Often I have questioned whether I spend too much time on memories and I think there is a fine line between memories, today and the future. Our memories can give such joy and sadness, yet inspire us for the future. I often think of others who have had a difficult past but it sets in motion the future. Joyce Meyer was one of those individuals who had a difficult upbringing and challenges in her early life, but the lives she has inspired and shared the story of salvation and living a life for Jesus makes us realize, sometimes God uses the bad for good. Although we still do not understand, we know that God has our best interest in mind. My husband passed without enjoying our empty nest years, yet I am grateful for our years and his life. Be blessed and use your memories to share your story. Psalms 105:5 “Remember the wonderful works He has done, His wonders, and the judgments He has pronounced.” (CSB) We are encouraged to remember God’s wonders and then also his judgments. Move forward by remembering without dwelling on the past.
We have a way . . .
To mess things up and then God has to correct them. In God’s Word we learn that blood has been the sacrifice we bring before God for our sins. We also read that being prideful and making a name for ourselves for the sake of people looking at us and He stops that when it does not glorify Him or is not in line for His plan. The city in which the Tower of Babel was built so people everywhere would know them when God confused the languages and individuals spoke in different languages. Then the Pentecost and God allowed people to understand each other's languages. He allowed it when it was used to glorify Him. Why do we insist on doing things our way? God’s way is the narrow way but the right way. We also learn in scripture that families in Egypt were to take a year old lamb and sacrifice it and put the blood over their door and the plague would pass over their household. This is just a brief summary of two things God has said He would do and He did. As we sacrifice during this season of prayer and fasting (sacrifice god’s we have) and instead spend time praying for things for furthering His kingdom, let’s remember the ultimate sacrifice He made.
The curtain . . .
In Hebrews we learn that the only way we could have access to God was through a curtain with purple, scarlet and blue twisted linen. This curtain was four inches thick and was the only way to enter God’s Holy Place. The Jewish even realized they didn’t have constant access to the Holy Place. As we considered what the crucifixion removed that curtain and gave us access through Jesus Christ. It is time to meditate on this amazing grace that our Heavenly Father gave us if we just ask. When Noah and his family were saved by entering The Ark it did not remove sin from him, he was still a sinner. But Praise God we were given the opportunity to have someone else to be punished for our sins if we ask for forgiveness. Jesus took our sin that day when he was crucified and said “it is finished.”
Lent . . .
Why celebrate Lent? If you celebrate the Lent season, which is the 40 days of fasting that begins on Ash Wednesday and ends on Holy Thursday. Ash Wednesday is a holy day of prayer and fasting that starts the 40 days of lent which is 6 ½ weeks leading up to Easter. When you see some individuals that have ashes on their forehead, this comes from the Jewish traditions. Although we should be doing this throughout the year, it is a time to turn to God. We remember the events leading up to Easter and Christ’s crucifixion. Self discipline is an important part of the lent season and giving up those things that are luxuries. Many give up meats, chocolates, caffeine but it can be anything. Maundy Thursday, the night before Jesus' crucifixion is when Jesus celebrated the Last Supper with his disciples. As we celebrate the sacrifice and grace of our Lord Jesus Christ this lent season what can we sacrifice for Him.
How can we renew our mind?
The Bible tells us in Romans 2:2, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.” This scripture tells us that Christians need to be continually renewing our minds. We need to stay focused on Him, on His Word and always doing what is right. In the book of Romans we learn that we can only hope for what we don’t see. In Romans 8:24-25, “For in this hope we were saved. But hope that is seen is no hope at all. Who hopes for what they already have? But if we hope for what we do not yet have, we wait for it patiently.” The Book of Romans, written by Paul to the Roman Christians was to encourage them and lift them up in their faith. We all have complete access to God if we so choose. Remember God allows us to choose, he is not a dictator but there are consequences if we choose not to accept Him into our lives and fulfill “The Great Commission.” We can choose eternal damnation when we leave this world or we can choose to live with Him eternally. Many times we say, “I’ll do that later, right now I want to do my thing.” This may not come out of our mouths but it is definitely the minds of many. So don’t wait, choose Jesus!
Being thankful!
It is difficult sometimes when we are going through difficult times to be thankful. How can we be thankful when we don’t feel like or are struggling with trials in our life. We read in I Thessalonians 5:16-18 “Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” Sometimes it seems impossible for us to do. I Chronicles 16:34 tell us “Oh give thanks to the LORD, for He is good; for His steadfast love endures forever!” We have the assurance that God loves us and thanking him daily even through difficult times gives us hope and encouragement. Make a “thankful” jar to sit out and at least once a day put one thing in the jar that you're thankful for. At the dinner table, share something you are thankful for. Start a prayer by being thankful. In the morning when you rise, give thanks and throughout the day.
Why take communion?
Today we remembered what Jesus did for all of us by taking communion. We take communion when we have a relationship with Christ. We need to repent before we take communion and allow it to represent his body and his blood He sacrificed for us so that we may have eternal life. In 1 Corinthians 11:28 “Everyone ought to examine themselves before they eat of the bread and drink from the cup” and having a time to do that prior to taking communion is important. Anyone who takes communion is “So then, whoever eats the bread or drinks the cup of the Lord in an unworthy manner will be guilty of sinning against the body and blood of the Lord” I Corinthians 11:27. As I observed and partook of the communion today, it may be we realize this is not only a personal thing between God and I but it also represents to others in the church or visitors that I am not afraid to go before others to partake of communion. This is my reflection on taking communion and the importance of it.
CHOICES . . . something we do everyday is to make choices. We choose to avoid things, procrastinate, or choose another path. But those two things - avoidance and procrastination are choices we make. These choices can give us unavoidable consequences. For example, if we need to exercise to receive certain health benefits as our doctors encourage us to do we see some positive outcomes, however, when we do not follow through and incorporate that into our regular life we may see negative results that sometimes are irreversible. Financial situations, and I have been guilty of this, and that is to “fly by the seat of our pants.” I get paid, spend what I want, then pay my bills. Choosing to not have a budget and follow some financial guidelines and saying “oh, I’ll pay that next week” or “they give me a grace period, it’ll be fine.” Those avoidance or procrastination habits we develop can have grave consequences and can even put us out of our home or car. The Bible does address avoidance and procrastination. “Let all things be done decently and in order.” I Corinthians 14:40 (NIV) “Those who wait for perfect weather will never plant seeds; those who look at every cloud will never harvest crops.” Ecclesiastes 11:3 (NCV) These scriptures are to the point and make us think about procrastination and avoiding things. Start paying those bills as soon as you get paid, don’t leave debt unpaid, fill up the gas next so you have gas to do what needs done, or go for a walk instead of watching tv. “I’ll do it tomorrow” is a way to procrastinate and avoid. “I must work the works of Him who sent Me while it is day; the night is coming when no one can work.” John 9:4 (NKJV) Why do we need to keep our dishes done? We do not know if we will have a power outage and cannot do the dishes. Leaving dirty dishes sit for days with no water will not only cause us to have no clean dishes but also make our house smell terrible. This may be a strange scenario but I have found it true a few times. Keeping our house in order prevents challenges later. Keeping our hearts in order, having a personal relationship with God is necessary because we do not know when the night will come.
This I wrote sometime ago . . .
I read a quote yesterday and it is something that I have always believed but it just resonated with me and caused me to reflect on the importance of living our lives in this manner. “Time is like a river. You cannot touch the same water twice because the flower that has passed will never pass again. Enjoy every moment of life.” - Unknown.
As I look back on my life I realize that so many times I should have savored and enjoyed every moment good and bad and use the experience as a point of growth and learning. I tell mothers of young children who are struggling because of the chaos, please enjoy every moment of messy spills and busy schedules and all that goes along with a young family because all too soon it will be gone. Life is not perfect, people are not perfect and when we are consumed with unnecessary things that mean nothing we make ourselves miserable. Take for example a young mother or father who might feel they have no time for themselves. You cannot get back time. And the time spent with that little one is gone forever. I remember a song I came across when our youngest was a baby and I sang it to him every night, in the middle of the night when we were alone and I was tired. “Rockabye, rockabye, Oh baby oh . . . Out from the covers what do I see, two little eyes looking at me . . .” This song brought tears to my eyes many nights but it brought such joy and I knew from having two older children the time goes by so fast.
So today and everyday make each minute count and whether you are spending time with your parents or your children or your husband or a friend or just doing something for yourself, enjoy! Reading a scripture passage today in Ecclesiastes 11:8 it brought to my attention that God wants us to enjoy each day realizing there will be days of darkness. So as You are going through daily experiences, rejoice in them, enjoy them, and make the most of your days.
The Book of Job is focused on suffering and faith. In our lives, we do go through challenging situations and obstacles, tragedies we do not understand. God uses these situations that he allows because of freewill but He uses to strengthen our faith in Him. Even though we question God about something because we do not understand, we must trust Him. Many times we understand once we have gotten through the situation why God allowed it, but there are times we do not know why. Job 13:15 Job expresses his hope in God even though he is going through such difficult times. Job 42:5 “My ears had heard of You but now my eyes have seen You.” (NIV) This comes toward the end of the Book of Job when Job finally realizes he knew right from wrong and always followed the law but now he realized that this relationship with God was not just about following the law but truly knowing Him.
How to live in the world but not be of the world. We are here in this world to share God’s gospel truth and have a life where others see Christ in us. In order to do this, it is impossible to be OF the world and share God’s righteousness, forgiveness and grace. We get caught in our hectic lives of kids, jobs, and social lives that we put our prayer life, our devotional time, reading His Word, and spending time with other believers on the back burner. We will get to it when life slows down. If we have accepted Christ into our lives and we are living in the Spirit, studying His Word, time in prayer and meditation we will begin to find his purpose for our lives. “If you were of the world, the world would love you as its own. However, because you are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of it, the world hates you.” John 15:19 (CSB) Unfortunately, one of the things we find ourselves in the middle of when we choose to follow God’s law and not mans, we are criticized and in some countries tortured and even killed living our lives as God intended instead of the world. Take time to study His Word, pray for guidance and serve the one true God.
“I am the Lord, the God of all mankind. Is anything too hard for me?” Jeremiah 32:27 Regardless of what we may think, God is in control. Sometimes we think we need to be in control, but ultimately he has the last say. When we use the wisdom God gives us and leave the rest to Him, we can have faith that nothing is too difficult for Him. God gives us the Holy Bible which is not only a history book but an instruction manual for how to live a Godly life. We find many times throughout the Bible where men and women choose their own path and how they ended up in difficult situations. I remember a young person telling me one time, “I have to make my own mistakes.” There are consequences to choosing the wrong path. If we choose daily “But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.” James 1:22 (NIV) Our Heavenly Father will honor those who honor and follow Him. Start each new day with a prayer asking God to guide all that You do and say, so that You can be a light to others.
“Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain.” I Corinthians 15:58 (NIV) We are all called to do the work of the Lord if we have accepted Him as our personal Savior. Does this mean we all need full-time pastors and worship leaders or work in some capacity in a Christian organization. Absolutely not. If Christian did not have jobs in secular society, how would we share God’s Word? How would others see our light shine for Him in our lives? We are all called to serve but it may be in different areas of service. A custodian at a school or hospital, an employee at a restaurant, a teacher, a law enforcement officer, a secretary in a church, and of course the list could go on and on. How can we reach others for Christ? Through our life. Ask God for direction. You serve Him and He will direct your path.
It is a new year and new challenges and blessings await us. Just as we celebrate the birth of a newborn babe, we should also renew our faith in Jesus Christ and live a life that is purposeful and fulfill The Great Commission. Often we get caught up in the world and although it is not intentional, it is necessary for us to take time to allow God to “Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me from your presence or take your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of your salvation and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me.” Psalms 51:10-12 (NIV) Do not forget to renew Your spirit by spending time with Him. At the beginning of a new year or a new month is a good time to just recharge and re-evaluate our life and if we are allowing God to be at the center. We read in Ephesians “You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.” Ephesians 4:22-24 (NIV) This reminds us not to let our old life sneak up on us but live intentionally and purposefully for Jesus everyday.
“Because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance." James 1:3 (NIV) Without using faith, it does not increase. When we face challenges in our lives, God allows us to go through them to increase our faith. If we go through life smoothly and we are never challenged to trust in Him, do we really have faith? Scott O’Grady who was a pilot was shot down and how to survive for six days before being rescued. His faith increased during this time and he looks at the entire thing as positive. Most of us may not have viewed it as a positive experience but his faith that week grew immeasurably. Corrie Ten Boom, Joni Eareckson-Tada both had their faith tested repeatedly and the experiences they endured built a faith stronger than we can know. Look at all circumstances with an open mind and heart and know that He is in control.